4/10/1938 – 11/16/2025
Lawrence
Shirley Ann Tarpy, 87, of Lawrence, passed away at home on November 16, 2025. Born in Baldwin City, Kansas on April 10, 1938, Shirley was the daughter of Olive Athey (Felt) and David Athey. She grew up in Baldwin City, forming lifelong memories with her older sister, Norma Walburn, and her younger brother, James Athey, both of whom preceded her in death.
On April 30, 1958, Shirley married Arthur Leo Tarpy Jr. The two shared nearly 52 years of marriage before Arthur’s passing in 2010. Together they raised five children.
Shirley is survived by three of her children: Allan Tarpy, Rebecca Dilts, and Cheryl Apel (Randall Splinter). She is preceded in death by her eldest son, David “Scott” Tarpy (Coleen), and her eldest daughter, Cathy Munoz (Jim). She is also lovingly remembered by her grandchildren: David Tarpy Jr. (Kristen), Jennifer Woods (Severeno), Meghan Sexon (Clay), Hannah Jones (Matt), as well as 13 great-grandchildren: James Wyatt, Henry, Harry, Lucy, Jane, George, Elijah, Xzavier, Myah, Kyrie, Rilynn, Maverick, and Cassidy, with one more on the way.
She worked for Orthopedic Casting in Eudora and Lawrence from 1977 to 1984. She then provided in-home daycare for many years, offering warmth and care to many children and families who came to cherish her, many of whom she remained close with for years afterward. She was incredibly talented and loved sewing and quilting, pouring love into every piece she created. She was a member of the Church of Christ, and was baptized on April 13, 1959, and found great joy in singing, especially gospel music.
Above all, Shirley loved her family deeply and unconditionally. The friendships she formed throughout her life were too numerous to count, each one a testament to her kindness and unwavering spirit. Her legacy of faith, love, and gentle strength will continue in the hearts of all who knew her.
Graveside Services for Shirley Ann Tarpy, 87, Lawrence, will be 11 am, Saturday, November 22, 2025, at Oak Hill Cemetery.
Online condolences made at rumsey-yost.com
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